3 Crucial Tips For Hooking Up Online: Here’s How To Do It Right

June 21, 2017


Finding a fling online can sometimes feel like mission impossible. Girls tend to interpret almost any attempt of contact via social networks as harassment, but if you do manage to come across a cute girl who likes you back, sexting and hooking up online can be a walk in the park.

If you follow our 3 simple tips, that is!

“Once you’ve sexted, you can’t unsext,” says Emma Golden, the famous voice behind Emma’s Thing.

“You can’t be sending a dude or gal sexy pictures of yourself, then rein in the entire thing and be like ‘How’s the weather?’ You can’t go back to a completely innocent convo, ever.”

So, before you venture into this “point of no return” we call making a move online, make sure you check out our 3 easy-to-follow tips.

Be Open And State Your End Goal Right Away

You should be honest right from the very start. The person you are talking to should know if your motive is a good old no-strings-attached hookup, harmless dirty exchange, or if you’re interested in going even further and turn your harmless sexting into real dating.

According to Askmen.Com: “We all know that one’s interest can be lost as soon as things climax, so be upfront: The point at which you start sexting is a great place to state your end goal. This way, nobody gets hurt, and hopefully, both parties are still on board for fun – in person, or just via text.”

Don’t Give Up On Someone Right Away If Met With Resistance

Sure, hooking up online via sexting simply isn’t for everyone, however – if your crush is hesitant about the whole hooking up online and sexting thing, that doesn’t mean she is not interested in meeting you.

In this case, tone down your game a little bit and see what happens.

Also Read: 7 Simple But Effective Relationship Hacks Every Guy Should Know

Find Your Partner’s Comfort Level And Scale Accordingly

This one relates closely to the previous one. We all have different perception of what is appropriate, and we all have different definitions of what “hooking up” should look like.

This is why you need to find your partner’s comfort zone and work up from there.

Before you go check out these 5 Signs The Woman You Are Dating Is A Keeper!