Summer Is Coming And It’s Time For Summer Flings

June 24, 2014


There is no definitive answer to the “Is she flirting with me?” question. Women are individuals who each have their very own unique way of attracting you, loving you and driving you totally insane.

That’s just what we do, man. However, when it comes to flirting, there are a few signs that you should be sure not to brush off as just a casual pleasantness. And the summertime is the perfect period to have a couple of flings.

Let’s start off with the “Cheeseburger Principle.” Think about when you’re hanging out with your friend and you see your friend eating a cheeseburger. Even if you’re trying really hard not to eat meat or something, just watching him eat that burger makes you want it even more. Right? Some terrible advice giver took this so-called “principle” and applied it to flirting.


Is it true? Yes. It’s true. Sometimes a woman will flirt with your friend just to try to entice you, but she’ll make sure it’s always within your vision and will direct most of the energy toward you.

If it seems like she continues to walk by with apparently no sense of why she’s there, she’s there for you. She’s trying to get you to notice her with this obvious sign she’s flirting, and you need to say something endearing.

By walking past repeatedly, perhaps out of her way, she’s telling you she wants your attention, but she’s making you work for it.

Keep an eye on her hair. While relatively simple and commonplace, in the right hands, a woman’s hair is a versatile weapon.

When trying to get your attention, she may twirl her hair or let it cascade in front of one eye, in an attempt to create a sense of come-hither mystery.


Just like birds are attracted to shiny things and fly toward them, people tend not to be able to look away from something they find interesting and attractive.

You can feel when a woman is eyeing you. She’s not always going to come up and talk to you, but if she keeps giving glances in your direction, glance back and see if anything connects.

Personal space, by definition, is where others are not.

When a woman enters this space, say, brushing past you with a glance and a smile, she’s inviting a response with this sure sign she’s flirting.

The caliber and character of her invasion will give you cues as to how you should respond.

Her approach is her strongest flirting card. It allows her to maintain eye contact, play with her hair, lightly touch you and mimic your mannerisms, among other flirting techniques.

If she has come over to talk to you, she wants to know what you’re all about. It’s the first step in the interview process called dating. From that point on, you’re on your own. Good luck!