How To Recognize The Go Sign

September 29, 2014

You’ve been seeing each other a few times a week and you’re wildly attracted to her. She keeps giving you what you think are signals that she’s ready to seal the deal and go past third base, but are you sure she’s really ready?

Before you make an assumption and push away what could be the greatest sex of your life, check out these signs that give you a clue into what she’s really thinking, and if she really wants you.

Exclusive Physical Contact

You just had another great date followed by an everything-but session in bed.

You’re dying to sleep with her but she rolls over and asks, “Are you seeing anyone else?”

Though it might kill the moment for you, if you’re ready to make the move forward as a couple, this is the perfect time to talk openly about your expectations surrounding exclusivity and relationships.

Most women would prefer to be exclusive before sleeping with you — or at the very least, be exclusively sleeping together.

At dinner, while you’re walking, when you’re making out or at any point when you’re together, a girl who is starting to be really into you won’t be able to keep her hands off of you.

Physical acts of affection usually demonstrate that she’s feeling increasingly more attracted to you — and thus, might want to get even more physical behind closed doors. The best thing you can do is return the gesture: hold her hand, kiss her randomly, tell her how wild you are about her.

This will reassure her that you’re on the same page…. and ready for the next level, too.

Background Checks

When a lady is about to add another number to her list, she starts to wonder about just how many girls you’ve brought home over the years.

While it isn’t healthy to talk extensively about past relationships, it is a good idea to talk about your past in terms of health. Most women will ask you to get tested for STDs and/or go together to the clinic before you do the deed for the first time.

If you’re interested in a relationship and want to take that next step together as a couple, then bring up the conversation yourself. This will show her just how serious you are and make her more comfortable once those results come in.